The absence of you…

I will never stop loving you. I am grateful for the love you gave...

Monster of my Memories.

My grief rattles around, inside the depths of my soul, clanging against my bones, aches into my viscera. It permeates into everything I do and am. But you do not see it, you see a smile or a laugh, an outward expression of who I used to be. Beneath the pleasantries, my grief rolls around...

What colour is your grief?

got to thinking about what colour my grief is and if I could label it. Has this ever been something you have thought of? I think it must be much like rating your pain on a numerical scale, helpful to some but mostly just an arbitrary number that doesn't quite ring true to anyone else but you.

When the grief doesn’t end and doubles down…

Hello Lovely humans, It has been quite awhile since I've last wrote and for that I am sorry but I truly haven't had the time nor the headspace. These past several months have been both hard and heavy, though I feel I carry it pretty well it does not make it any less arduous. Being...

How can we honour a life?

Hello Mortals, Welcome back to your small reprieve of today. I first would like to take a moment to thank each of you for visiting my little blog here. This is just one of my little passion projects and I am very grateful for your attendance. Today I have been thinking about how can one...

Today We Remember…

Take a moment... Take many

Is it ok to blow up Grandma?

Know what choices you have in post mortem care...

Waiting for Tears…

Hello fellow humans, as many of you are aware a few weeks ago my uncle died. It was a relatively "good" death, if that is what you can call it as he did not seem to suffer greatly. He was very comfortable but perhaps not where he had hoped his death would occur. These things...

The Value of a Death…

Hello lovelies, this week has been quite a trying week for me. It has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs. One of my best friend's from nursing school got to pledge her life to her longtime boyfriend in a beautiful and super fun ceremony on Saturday into Sunday morning. On the flip, one of...